In this Lambda Reports episode, Charles Koehler hosts a discussion on dating within the St. Louis lesbian and gay community with guests Nancy Moldenhauer, Mark Lammert, and Mark Kalk. They explore the complexities of dating, including the challenges of defining relationships, the differences between gay and straight dating, and the importance of open communication. They discuss the lack of role models and etiquette for gay dating, emphasizing the need for personal inventory and understanding one's expectations. The conversation also touches on the difficulties of meeting people, the role of bars, and the impact of not having family support in finding partners. The guests offer practical advice, such as planning dates around shared interests and not rushing into relationships. They conclude by encouraging listeners to volunteer with Challenge Metro and to seek resources for improving their dating experiences.